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Raising Resilient Kids: Helping Children Cope with Failure and Build a Growth Mindset

July 30, 2025

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I'm Mykayla, mom of 3, school psychologist, and host of What I Want My Kids to Know

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Failure and disappointment are part of life—but for kids, those moments can feel extra big. And for parents, watching those struggles unfold can be really uncomfortable. But if we can lean into these moments and guide our kids through them, they can become powerful opportunities for growth, resilience, and self-worth.

In this episode, I’m joined by Growth Mindset Coach Michelle Blais, who works with kids and families on helping children develop emotional resilience and the confidence to try—even when it’s hard.

We talk about:

  • Why it’s so difficult to watch our kids fail, and why it’s important that we let them.
  • How to be supportive without rescuing or micromanaging.
  • What it really means to raise a child with a growth mindset (and how to model it yourself).
  • Simple phrases and strategies that help kids reframe failure and build emotional strength.

Michelle also shares 3 creative conversation starters you can use this week to open up these conversations with your kids.

If you’re looking for practical ways to help your kids become more emotionally strong, confident, and prepared for real life—you’ll love this episode.

Conversation Starters to Try This Week:

  1. “What’s something hard you did today?”
  2. “What’s something you failed at that helped your brain grow?”
  3. “Let’s make a new family rule: every time we say, ‘I can’t,’ we add ‘yet.’ Can you help me remember?”

Resources Mentioned:

  • Michelle Blais’ Parent Program: Raising Resilience
  • Find Michelle online at MisschelleMindset.com
  • Follow her on Instagram: @misschellemindset

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